Here’s how this went down. Taylor Swift was playing a show in Houston the night before the Super Bowl. You could not buy tickets. You had to win tickets, either through a sweepstakes (er, Swiftstakes) or by having the TS Team find you on social media because you’re a raging Swift fan and give you a pass to the show. This may shock you, but while I might be a Swiftie, I’m not a social media power Swifter. I knew that wasn’t going to work and my fortune with sweepstakes is historically low.

Time to take matters into my own hands. Aside from Taylor, the other big player in this show was AT&T/DirectTV…the sponsor of the whole thing. Since Melinda Ann and I had successully vlogged a T-Swift show before, I thought I’d reach out to AT&T corporate and see if we could go as…you know…vloggers. The most charming email I could write was sent to several people at AT&T (and I can spin a charming e-missive, you know).

Eric from AT&T answered, and he said he’d try to work it out. 2 weeks later, after I had given up and was deciding I should spend Super Bowl Saturday doing…nothing…Eric came through with 2 passes. NOT ONLY two tickets to the show, but we also got to get all VIP Party with it. It was so fun I had to split it into 2 vlogs. Here we go:

The moral of the story here…well, I’ve been saying it’s “Just Ask.” I’d like to think the asterisk on this (so, it’d actually be more like “Just Ask*”) is to offer something, and have the goods to back up the offer of usefulness. I’m glad I didn’t have to tell Eric I was a vlogger and then not have any vlogs to show for it. I was a year into the process and by then I had quite the backlog.

I don’t know if Eric dug the vlog aspect, or the email, or if he is just a really nice dude (we know he is!), but it was necessary in my mind to accompany The Ask with The Offer. Something to think about going forward…and if any of you guys want something seemingly out of reach…try to be useful and then just go for it.

Thanks to Eric and AT&T and DirectTV and TAYLOR SWIFT and her people because…a heck of a good time was had. Let’s do this again? Yes? Yes.

You guys. Saturday was one of the coolest moments I’ve had as a music fan…ever. As I constantly say, I am working on a vlog (or 2!) about all this, but here are some photos from Taylor Swift’s ONLY show of 2017 and also…a special fan party she hosted for some fortunate folks, including Melinda Ann and me.  Grateful doesn’t even scratch the surface here.

I gotta give a huge shoutout to Eric at AT&T, who replied to my email which basically said “PLEEEEEEEASE” and not only got us into the show, but the fan party as well.  Beyond.  Just beyond.

The Fan Party

Not knowing what to expect, we wandered into this wonderland of awesomeness with mouths hanging open…mostly at the TS Donut Wall (TM), but the open bar and the overall glamour didn’t hurt, either.  There were makeovers happening, custom t-shirts being printed, food everywhere, and plenty of nice people to make us feel at home.





The Show

Like, dang…if this was Taylor’s only show this year. But YAY! We were there! But Taylor, really…you take time for you and you MAKE THAT NEW ALBUM.


Thanks. Also your show was fantastic. Thanks again for letting our sparkly wristbands up front.


Put your hands up 😊 #supersaturdaynight @_plma_ @_plma_ @att


Vlogs coming soon, I promise.

Long live TS.

A Year of Vlogging

1 Feb

Last January I decided fairly on the spot that I was going to start making weekly vlogs. I didn’t make a “do it for a year” mandate for myself, but once I got halfway through I kinda made that self-decision that I’d keep going until January 2017. We’re there. It’s been a wild and fun trip!

First, some stats (as of vlog No. 44 in New Orleans):

Total minutes of vlog: 239.42 = 3.99 hours
Most popular vlog: No. 40 Taylor Swift Edition…434 views
Second place popular: No. 41 MCC Comes to Town…220 views
Longest vlog – Also T-Swift No. 40, thanks to concert footage I couldn’t bear to cut: 12:48

So basically, I made a 4 hour long movie about myself this year.  (Great?!) You never know what you’re going to document in a year’s time when you set out on something new in the very stereotypical “start something new” month of January, but fortunately for me this year has had some incredible twists and turns. Of course as I am hardwired to do, I thought I’d share some of the stuff I’ve learned in my year as a vlogger

Just Do It.

The vlogger who inspired me to “just start” was none other than Casey Neistat, the biggest Youtuber and all around swell guy. I still watch his vlogs and learn from him every time. I got to meet Casey 3 months into the year when he spoke at a Samsung event during SXSW, which looking back is kind of an incredible stroke of luck to meet “The Muse” when you’re 3 months into a new thing. That was some brain fuel, for sure. (Here’s that vlog, if you want it).

with Casey Neistat

Make A Mini-Series

I got to GO TO EUROPE (!!) with Kiya Heartwood, and I managed to keep up a pretty good vlog schedule.  We were gone for about 13 days, and I managed to make 6 vlogs throughout the trip (Nos. 30-35), much more than my usual once a week average up until then.  When in Rome, or London…or, I am mixing my metaphors here. The glory of a vlog is if something REMARKABLY interesting is happening (like one’s first time in the UK), you wanna document it. One thing I regret: I have gotten fairly brave at using my camera but I was in Gordon Ramsay’s restaurant Maze in London which was such a highlight but I was too nervous to really film much. They were so attentive I felt like filming would be a no no. That’s ok.  I can still taste the braised short ribs when I think real hard.

Share With Your Subjects

I had two Mary Chapin Carpenter focused vlogs this year – one for her new album release and my history with her music (No. 18) and one about driving around 2 states to see her play in November (No. 41). Both a joy to make.  Because Twitter is sometimes a great equalizer, I tweeted links to both and MCC graciously shared them. That makes a vlogger feel good (and it really ups your views, but who’s counting).

Keep the Gear Handy

This is not really about a vlog, though I never would have had this fun little social media success without the weekly vlogging. I’m a Karlie Kloss fan…computer science nerd, philanthropist, entrepreneur, and oh yeah, supermodel. I got a Like a Kloss shirt to support her Kode with Karlie charity, and it came in a cool box, and I decided to make video about the shirt unpacking itself. (SOMETIMES I HAVE TOO MUCH COFFEE OK). I tweeted it to Karlie, and she retweeted it to her followers (she has a few more than me, like 2.44 million more).  That tweet got 500+ likes and over 100 retweets.  This is by far the most attention anything I’ve made has gotten. What did it get me? Satisfaction and not much else…so far.  But as I’ve learned, in the game of making stuff, it’s a marathon and not a sprint. And always have your camera out when the inspiration strikes.

So after a full year and 44 vlogs…I’m not done. I have a pretty big exciting trip to make this weekend that is actually happening BECAUSE of a vlog (insert deflective vagueries here…don’t worry, I’ll vlog about it…rhymes with Sailor Rift). I have slowed down, though. I find that while Casey managed to make his day to day life fairly interesting because he lives in NYC and flies drones all over, I don’t have that kind of wherewithal (yet).

The good thing is there’s often a thought of “what can I vlog this week?” and it actually makes me get out and do more, or at least reframe my thoughts on what I’m doing.  Everything is a potential subject, if you frame it well.

If you have watched a few or a lot, I thank you profusely for hanging in with me. Here’s to 2017 and the Vlog.

Just a little catch up in vlog world…

and a TRIP TO NEW ORLEANS! What a city.

Here’s the deal with me, and I know I’ve been over this several times and in several forms. In my formative teenage years I became a folkie. I appreciate a great songwriter. I’ve seen and see quite a few of them, and I count many of them as my friends.  There’s a vibrant and wonderful live music scene in this town/state I live in, and that’s pretty dang awesome. Lots of local and regional acts of amazing talent and virtuosity in bars and listening rooms every single night of the week.

However…however. I’m coming into my own as a “big show” junkie. I found that out this year and I think I embraced it…so much so that I plan on amping it up even more in 2017 if possible. There’s nothing like the feeling that being at a concert with thousands of other excited people brings. This sounds weird coming from me because I generally structure my days with priority number 1 being “avoid people in person at all costs,” but I had a few concert experiences this year that brought me out of my intro-shell. Most of them involved pop music. Most of them involved singing very loudly. Most of them involved me stalking down an iconic song to hear it live. For instance:

Vanessa Carlton: The Mucky Duck

“You know I’d walk 1000 miles if I could just see you.” That song was on repeat in my college years, and it was cool to hear in an intimate room like The Mucky Duck. Vanessa put on a great show all around.

Carly Rae Jepsen: ACL Moody Theater
“Hey, I just met you, and this is crazy, but here’s my number, so call me maybe.” One of THE iconic hits of mid-2000’s pop. Everyone knows this song. They may hate it, but they know it. Luckily Carly Rae has plenty of fans who love it, and we all sang along at the top of our lungs. Super fun. (The Vlog)

Ellie Goulding

Ellie Goulding: Cedar Park Center
This show is where mine eyes were opened to the glory live pop hath wrought.  Ellie is perhaps at the part of the mountain of her career where she’s pretty dang near all the way up to the top except she’s got more to climb and no one’s really sure how high the mountain is.  I’ve followed her on social media all year and the woman never stops playing shows across, almost literally, all the continents.  It’s incredible.  She has earned every hit and every accolade. As with my album review, Ellie’s show is one hit after another.  High energy, and still very accessible.  She broke it down with a few acoustic guitar tunes, played some drums, and danced her ass off.  I left a much bigger fan than I was when I walked in, which is really what you want out of a live performance. (The Vlog)

Maya Rudolph

Maya Rudolph and Princess: Paramount
One of my comedy heroines has a Prince cover band, and they were scheduled to play the Moontower Comedy Festival…in what turned out to be the week that Prince passed away (stop it, 2016). I would have them the pass of all passes if they canceled, but they did not. Maya and her partner Gretchen Lieberum gave an incredible tribute to a room full of bummed out people, which ended in everyone rushing the stage, dancing and singing loudly. A lesson in music and grief, and how they work together. (Same Vlog as above!)

Mary Chapin Carpenter - Austin, TX

Mary Chapin Carpenter: All Over
One of the more recent excursions so I don’t need to rehash a TON, but…as the aforementioned Vanessa Carlton song says, I will travel 1000 miles just to see Mary Chapin play. She’s a true pro, because I have seen her play solo, I have seen trio shows, I have seen full band shows, I have seen her swap songs with Shawn Colvin…whatever the tour set up, there are always new songs and different arrangements and she does a Q&A (I am the one that asks MCC what books she’s reading), and I ALWAYS leave feeling a little more able to conquer the world than before. It’s joyful and meditative at a Mary Chapin show. I hope whoever reads this finds their artist that does that for them, and while I would LOVE to think it’s MCC for EVERYONE!!!!…I know you guys all have your people. Seek them out. (The Vlog)

Taylor Swift Formula 1 Austin, TX

Taylor Swift: F1 Circuit of the Americas
It was not just a concert, but a full on mind-blowing experience. I love Taylor’s music, and since I am kind of spoiled with seeing people I really like pretty close up, I was a little wary of how this whole thing was going to go down. As you can watch in the vlog, we had a whole day to get where we needed to be, and we landed some prime standing spots close to the stage. It was an incredible, immersive experience where I sang louder and with more joy than I can remember, well…ever. Taylor is a boss of a writer, performer, and business person and it all came together with 80,000 people at Circuit of the Americas. 10/10 Would Do Again.

Whatever it is I seek at these shows, I intend to find more of it in 2017. A shared collective joy is part of it. An illumination either into the artist’s craft, or their ability to connect with me among hundreds or thousands of others, or just leaving feeling surprised at what I felt. I love that feeling. The “Whoa” factor. More of it, please.

My Smartwatch and Me

18 Dec


“Constant high frequency flinches” – a description of our lives on phones from the great documentary on minimalism right now on Netflix. I feel that a lot. Earlier this year, I think in March, the ringer switch on my phone flipped permanently to the “off” position.  There’s a way around it to toggle sound back on, on but it’s 3 menus deep in settings and WHO HAS TIME FOR THAT? So slowly I just accepted that my phone was silent.

To offset this new reality because I am a Busy Productive Person (TM) and also a sucker for a tech gadget, I impulse bought a Pebble smartwatch in an open box sale just to try it out…you know, “for science.” Soon all those notifications that popped up on my phone (and were silent) were buzzing my wrist.  At first I thought it was kinda cool…I always knew when something was up, I could see a text message fairly easily while driving (stop that), and I felt like a new version of Busy Productive Person (TM) had arrived.

As the year wore on, I lessened which notifications got through to my wrist until it was down to phone calls and texts.  I began to notice that while I might have my phone face down on the table at lunch with a friend, that wrist vibration was hard to ignore. Even if I didn’t take a glance, my mind was removed from the conversation with the real live human being in front of me until I checked the notification.

After a while the flinch began. What did someone want? Was it a problem? Was someone wanting something from me right this instant? Could I fulfill the self-perceived obligatory Busy Productive Person Response Time (TM) I had set for myself? It didn’t matter if I had just sat down to practice a guitar part or maybe write a song or work on some intense emailing or what…the wrist would buzz me, and I’d answer it. I started to get a sinking feeling when the flinch happened, because I knew my brain was now headed in another direction. I’d be scattered and dissatisfied with the task it interrupted and also dissatisfied until I handled the notification response, whatever it was. I felt on top of it but my body was telling me to work something else out for crying out loud.

Over Thanksgiving with my family in Houston, I forgot to pack the charger for my watch.  It died halfway through the weekend, and when I got home I put the watch on a shelf and I haven’t charged it since.

My phone still lives on silent, and I have missed a few phone calls, but now manage to not look at my phone for maybe an hour or two at a time instead of multiple times an hour.  This is kind of a big deal for me, the pleaser and “Busy Productive Person (TM). If anyone has noticed I don’t text back as quickly, no one’s mentioned it (I doubt anyone cares).

Since I am a sucker for a new year’s resolution, I’m going to try and pay less attention to the buzzes and the little red notification bubbles and see what happens. If anything my brain will feel a little calmer.

We can dissect the ins and outs of this year as a whole another time, but for now I’m gonna focus on what I focus on best: the music. And for all its other weird aspects, 2016 was a pretty awesome music year for me, both for getting good things on disc (or data) and for seeing awesome shows. Let’s commence.

The Recorded Good

Albums…yes, I still buy them. Usually via iTunes. I am a very heavy “single” consumer these days, though…like most people who listen to the radio. If I hear it and like it, I’ll usually get the song. If I find myself getting a decent amount of songs from one release, I’ll usually go all in on the album.

Susan Gibson: Remember Who You Are

Any year with a Susan album in it is a magic year, and this one has been one of my favorites since it landed in my earholes earlier this year.  I know I am biased but I am also right. Susan recorded with good friend and all around Buddha Don Richmond, and they took a perfect batch of songs and made them perfecter. In particular, Susan can’t play “Put the Shovel Down” without me actually getting goosebumps and it’s awkward because while it’s one of her most serious songs, I will request it everywhere and bring everyone else in the room down into goosebumpy meditation with me. Don’t miss it. (Also, thanks to Emily Shirley, some of the best album artwork everrrrrr).

Ellie Goulding: Delirium
Technically a late 2015 release, I didn’t get his until I was nearing the live Ellie show in April. The thing she’s proven with her recordings is that she’s an album artist, not just a single dropper. This one picks up where her 2013 release “Halcyon Days” leaves off…almost every track is an earworm for me. She’s a singer-songwriter at heart, but uses beats and rhythm in a fantastic way. Highlights: Something in the Way You Move (above), On My Mind, Codes

Mary Chapin Carpenter: The Things We Are Made Of
It’s always a good year when MCC releases a project, and this one lived up to my expectations. A big old deal was made about Dave Cobb producing, because he’s the “it” Americana producer this year, and that’s great but…it sounds like a Mary Chapin Carpenter album and that’s awesome, so I’m gonna give a big round of applause to Mary Chapin. Some of the best writing you’ll find anywhere. Highlights: Something Tame Something Wild, The Blue Distance, Oh Rosetta

Elizabeth Wills: Every Little Star

I was lucky enough to be in the studio for the birth of this album in January, and even if I didn’t see the love and attention that went into this record, I know I’d still hear it pouring from my speakers. Elizabeth is a healing kind of songwriter to listen to, much like MCC above, and these are some of my favorite songs of hers. Especially check out: Love Come Down and Spinning Circle

Kiiara: Low Key Savage
I bought Kiiara’s EP because I really loved her breakthrough single “Gold,” and all of it is one pop/EDM trip that I have grown to love. One of the critiques of “Gold” is that it’s hard to hear the words and to that I say…but that BEAT. Also that line is “Gold up in my teeth, tastes like money when I speak.”

Lady Gaga: Joanne
Of course, I was excited for a Gaga album. This one is different. Some have called it a country album, and while she’s written with a Nashville hit maker (Hillary Lindsey, who is certifiably awesome) for a couple of songs, I don’t really see this as such. It’s a songwriter album, and there’s still the requisite amount of weird to make it a Gaga album. I was a little sad to lose the Eurodance sound I love from her, I am currently obsessed with Million Reasons, so I guess I’m ok with it all.


Since “one track at a time” is increasingly the way I want to buy music, I thought individual songs needed their own list. Heavy on the pop.

Calvin Harris/Rihanna – This Is What You Came For: T-Swift wrote this and if you listen really close you can discern which “ooo ooo ooo”‘s are hers and which are Rihanna’s. Yes I’m a nerd. I got to hear the solo piano version live in October so that was cool.

The Belle Sounds – Call Out Love
The Belle Sounds – Olivia
The best band in Austin right now FIGHT ME. The songs, the sounds, the harmonies…they sound like their recordings when they play live and that is incredible.

Johnnyswim – Let It Matter: This duo is back and their new album is gorgeous. This song especially gets me, and their melodies are top notch.

Major Lazer + Justin Bieber – Cold Water: Yep, hell froze over and The Biebs made my list. Whatever you think about his pants and his conduct, the kid attaches to a good pop song, usually. He had an especially good year with his own album, but guest spots on other songs sealed the deal. This one is my jam.

X Ambassadors – Unsteady: I know nothing about this band but this song was big and I never got tired of it.

Mike Posner – I Took A Pill In Ibiza: I feel like this one came out last year, but maybe not…anyway it’s big on the Grammy nom list this year. I feel like these are some of the most honest lyrics on pop radio at the moment. In fact, Posner wrote it as an acoustic folk song, and the remix got sucked up into hit radio land and here we are. It’s great.

And here we are, in December. May the 2017 music muses be kind to us.

Next post: the live stuff.

42 Vlogs!  Amazing.  Also I have this really crazy run going with these last 3:

40: T-Swift
41: Mary Chapin

Not that there’s pressure for 43 but maybe a little. Anyway…I got to meet Bruce Springsteen and my tattoo is half done and life’s ok from over here.

Vlog 41: MCC Edition

30 Nov

Roadtrips and good friends and coffee and Mary Chapin Carpenter. These are a few of my favorite things!

MCC is Awesome

12 Nov

Wow.  There’s an incredible amount of things going on in the world at the moment.  Hard to wrap one’s mind around the changes politically and socially this week, but I’m sure my head will start wrapping soon.  Or try to…holy crap.  In the meantime, photos.

Before Election 2016 went down on Tuesday, I saw 3 Mary Chapin Carpenter Shows in Dallas, Austin, and Oklahoma City.  All amazing.  More on the details later but for now in the sake BLOGGING SOMETHING…photos.

Night 1: Dallas, Texas

Mary Chapin Carpenter - Dallas, TX

Night 2: Austin, Texas

Mary Chapin Carpenter - Austin, TX

Night 3: Oklahoma City, OK

Mary Chapin Carpenter - Oklahoma City, OK